This is the very powerful load down on showing up for Co-Creative Sex. Make sure you read it closely! There is a lot of juice here. : )

Last month, we talked about the GROUNDWORK FOR CO-CREATIVE SEX. That even the beautiful Gods and Goddess from Hollywood have to do it too to get what they want. Make sure you read that before reading the next installment which involves actually SHOWING UP FOR IT!

In co-creative sex, Baljit Rayat explains on “Sex is Medicine” with Devi Ward, not only are you co-creating with your partner but as in all artistic endeavors, you also co-create with the universe. Something bigger comes in to participate, supporting flow, magic and your ultimate unfolding.

When you fully become aware of your own power and truly own that you are the author of your life, you realize that so much depends on how consciously you show up. You are acutely aware that the INTENTIONS you bring to your relationships significantly affect their outcome. You suddenly realize that all that happens to you is actually your own creation.

When you enter sexual activity, perfectly conscious of what you are bringing into the relationship, your motivations, your desires, your fears, and anxieties, you also know that the quality of the sexual experience will directly be influenced.

When you ask the Universe to support you, to co-create with you, help you overcome your fears, clear all your blockages, you are stepping into the gateway of your self-power.

We achieve our fullest expression of self-power when we completely take responsibility for ourselves.

This conscious attitude and inquiry are how things can truly blossom in sexual activity. When you DEFER your power, make everyone else responsible for your life and problems, you fall into unconscious sex, and this is when problems start showing up.

Furthermore, Baljit explains that when you use sexual energy consciously, all illusions dissipate. You no longer believe in fairy tales and you stop leaking your precious energy.

You also free your energy from being stuck in the three lower chakras. When you get stuck there, your blocked energy will eventually result in healing crises, which is not the easiest route to take. When you act from a very empowered place, sex is extremely healing and catapults you to new levels of satisfaction and fulfillment, both sexually and in other important aspects of your life. When you are consciously co-creating with sex, you will, of course, need to deal with various things coming up, but it also means that you are getting closer and closer to your true self.

Co-creative sex automatically cultivates integrity, purpose, and self-realization. It just goes together.

When you understand the power of sex, you actually realize that it has a tremendous healing power. Empowerment becomes manifest in all levels of your life. When you defer your power, you retrograde into unconscious sex.

If you do things just to “please” without respecting yourself or expect the other person to “give” you that highly sought after orgasm, you automatically fall out of co-creative sex.

This happens whenever expectations are put on someone and they “have” to do something for you. Baljit explains that an orgasm actually comes from “how energetically clear you are with yourself. And when you learn to tap into this (co-creative energy), you are healing all your wounding at the same time. You are way more open, juicier, way more connected!” She explains that when you meet someone that is like-minded and “energetically” understands you, the magic just happens.

What I personally love in this statement is that it isn’t how much you are energetically aligned with another person, but how energetically aligned you are to yourself. This is a very powerful statement. Of course, when you are energetically aligned with yourself, chances are, you will be laying beside someone who is energetically aligned with you! But to attract the ladder, you, of course, need to start with yourself.

For this to happen, she explains, it is very important to understand the difference between “boundaries” and “barriers.” Emotional blocks and lack of consciousness create “barriers” to co-creative energy, whereas “boundaries” help you step into your power and seal up any energy leakages you may have.

Boundaries, which are made possible through healthy communication, are the secret access pass to co-creative sex.

It allows the energy to powerfully flow in a leak free container. Just think of it: when there is a leak in the plumbing, you don’t get a nice flow of water in the shower. Well, the same outcome occurs on the energetic level. Once you patch up all your leakages and tap into your co-creative power with a like-minded person, your sex life will wield a new level of intensity as well as unfathomable experiences of connection, real power, and deep satisfaction. Once the plumbing is fixed, the water flows powerfully and abundantly. Imagine what that would mean on the energetic level!

Your capacity to tap into co-creative sex is directly correlated to your personal development and your level of awareness. Once you’ve mastered this, you can say goodbye to disempowered sex. You have become an empowered manifester, creating realities that you want to experience in your leak-free-vessel of love. You are also reaping all the benefits of this accelerated healing power.

You have become a maestro at the art of processing the “stuff” that comes up, digesting it, then integrating it as personal wisdom. In this place, your life forces are optimal and supporting you in all areas of your life. You have become a powerhouse — or definitely heading in that direction.

Your sexual satisfaction is a perfect mirror of your own life. They become perfectly interchangeable. Needless to say, when two people enter sexual intercourse from this conscious perspective, sex can wield experiences far beyond what they can imagine.

Co-creative sex nourishes your energy fields as opposed to depleting them. In fact, your life and sex are injected with new levels of energy, propelling you to new heights!

You are in the process of “up-levelling” your energetic frequency. 

In co-creative sex, you are experiencing and expanding into deeply satisfying states of blissfully connected sex, heightened levels of consciousness and feelings of oneness. As you progress on this path, you are getting that much closer to your full potential as a human being, that much more connected to your true essence and capacity to truly realize yourself.

This is far from trivial stuff. In fact, we are touching on some very deep and profound realities, that probably can only fully make sense once you start tasting it for yourself. Maybe even simply allowing yourself to taste it. To get here, you totally earned it! You have become a total Manifester. You’re a total Boss!
But no worries. I am very well aware that this is a total PROCESS. Becoming a fully empowered co-creator takes commitment and resolve. If you are needing help with your blind spots, with those unconscious programs playing out in your head that stop you from fully being the creator you want to be, don’t hesitate. Help is VERY useful! It can catapult you five steps ahead, 100 steps ahead… and even more. Whatever leap you are ready to make, it can happen. Remember the universe is always there to create WITH you! The universe is ALWAYS ready to PLAY. Just give me a shout and we will get things happening for you.

Full of pezzazz in her period dress from a Louis XIV TV-Series set in France, here is Josée Lachance:

“I had the chance to have a healing session with Julie and it was more revealing than I thought possible. It made me see myself and my relationships in a whole new light. Definitely worth it. J’ai eu la chance d’avoir une session Akashic avec Julie et j’ai été surprise par les choses qui sont ressortis. J’ai appris à voir mes relations sous un autre angle. Ça m’a aidé à comprendre d’où je venais et où je dois m’en aller pour évoluer. Merci Julie!!!” — Josée Lachance, Montreal, Film Industry.


I created a QUIZ to help you see the blind spots in your relationship. If you are single, it can help you see what might be holding you back. Regardless, you will definitely be able to connect-the-dots… if you are willing to look! : )

If you are COMMITTED to making things better:

TAKE THE QUIZ: Is your sexual relationship a supportive relationship?

Click on the image to start:

Love Julie xxx
P.S. Check out this beautiful video. This is a perfect example of “Co-Creative Sex” made visible with art! See ya soon!


1. Sexual assault: the antithesis of connection — Coal gray

2. Victimized  vs. empowered money-mediated sex— Paynes gray

3. Sex under the influence: deferring your power — Smog gray

4. Personal development meets porn-literate: the realities under the non-realities — Gunmetal gray

5. Eating the Shadow in Sex: Sexual Vampirism — Campfire smoke

6. Decolonizing sex: Free Yourself of Mental Slavery — Coal soot

7. Clear contracts:  from Genital rubbing to depth — Nimbus cloud gray

8. “Genital rubbing”— Stainless steel

9. Light and playful sex — Billowing cumulus

10. Hello Heart — Silver lining

11. The Groundwork for Co-creative Sex — mining silver

12. Showing up for Co-creative Sex — Pure Silver

13. Consciously cultivating connected-sex — Liquified silver

14. The ultimate marriage of eros, love, and sexuality — Blooming silver stardust

Consciously Cultivating Connected Sex (18th of May) 

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Julie Archambault is a certified multi-dimensional healer in the Akashic Records. She is a master at creating a safe vessel for magical and deep healing to occur. The power she channels for your accelerated healing is profound and truly sacred.

(Collage Art: Curious intruder, Kenojuak Ashevak, Etching & Aquatint, 2009 superimposed with Snakeskinned Tiger Woman, Julie Archambault, 2016)

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